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Hi; my name is Audi Nova and I am a Master NLP Hypnosis Practitioner. I look forward to introducing you to a fast track trance induction experience and other important science relating to mindfulness, and the science of consciousness.

Monday, January 30, 2017

I know something about you without knowing you. I bet you spend A LOT of time in your head.
You know, thinking, worrying, stressing, freaking out — call it whatever you want. I call it a preoccupied mind. And with what?
99% of your thoughts are useless. William James put it best:
All my life I’ve been obsessed with practical things. Practical philosophy, practical knowledge, practical books, practical work, and practical advice.
That idea comes from Pragmatism, a philosophical tradition that started in the 19th century in America. Charles Sanders Peirce, who was a Harvard professor, is considered as the “father of Pragmatism.”
But it was William James, a trained physician turned philosopher, who really defined the philosophy.
About thoughts, worry, and stress, William James says:
Pragmatism believes that the mind is a tool. Your mind should work for you, not against you. People who don’t master their mind, don’t believe it’s possible.
They say: “I can’t help but thinking these things.”
Well, you can with enough practice. It’s a skill.
In other words: You have the ability to decide what you think. Or, you can choose NOT to think.
And that is one of the most important and most practical things you can learn in life. Before I learned that skill, I would spend hours and hours inside my head.
Just think about how much you think.
And the list goes on. That is all REAL shit. That’s stuff people tell me when I ask them what they worry about.
You know what those thoughts do to you? Guilt, anger, suffering.

I just have one question for you: What’s the practical use of your thoughts?

Yes? I’m waiting. Still no answer? Exactly.
Thoughts have no use. 99% of them that is.
Which thoughts are useful?
That’s it. You can ignore every other thought.
If you’re constantly thinking, it’s because you haven’t’ trained your mind yet. You HAVE to get out of your head.
If not, you go mental. Everyone will. No exception.
Also, you’re probably thinking so much that you’re missing out of life. Did you notice the sunshine this morning when you woke up? Or the raindrops? Did you notice the smell of your coffee? Did you feel the texture of your cereals?
If your answer is no, you definitely need to get out of your head. Stop thinking and start feeling.

Now, you might think: “How do I train myself to stop thinking useless thoughts?”

Awareness.
That’s where it starts. Every time you start drifting off, become aware of it. Just observe your brain. Step outside yourself and just observe the crazy shit you’re thinking about.
Don’t judge. Don’t think you’re stupid. If you do that, you’re thinking again.
No, what you want to do is say this to yourself: “Ah that’s a cute thought. Now, let’s get back to reality.”
Are you back to reality? Do you feel your eyes reading the letters on your screen? Do you feel your phone in your hand? Are you thinking about how you’re going to apply this information to your life?
Great. You’re USING your mind, and it’s not the other way around. Now, keep using that brain of yours.
Because I’ll tell you this: It’s the most powerful tool on earth.

Saturday, January 28, 2017

Approaching Life with Beginner’s Mind

By Leo Babauta
A lot of our troubles could be solved by one simple practice.
A lot of joy could be found with the same practice.
And it is simple: practice seeing life with a beginner’s mind.
I’m stealing this of course from Zen Buddhism’s shoshin and Shunryu Suzuki’s Zen Mind Beginner’s Mind, and I’ve written about it numerous times. But it’s more fundamental than most people realize.
It’s not just something you practice when you’re learning something — though dropping the “expert’s mind” and seeing the learning as a beginner is an important practice in learning. It’s something you can practice every single moment of the day (if you can remember to do so).
What is beginner’s mind? It’s dropping our expectations and preconceived ideas about something, and seeing things with an open mind, fresh eyes, just like a beginner. If you’ve ever learned something new, you can remember what that’s like: you’re probably confused, because you don’t know how to do whatever you’re learning, but you’re also looking at everything as if it’s brand new, perhaps with curiosity and wonder. That’s beginner’s mind.
But imagine if you could apply this to every activity. Take eating breakfast, for example:
  • You start by seeing the activity of eating with fresh eyes, as if you don’t know what to expect, as if you hadn’t done it thousands of times already.
  • You really look at the food, the bowl, the spoon, and try to see the details that you might not normally notice.
  • You truly notice the textures, tastes, smells, sights of the food, pay close attention as if you don’t already know how the food will taste. Everything seems new, perhaps even full of wonder.
  • You don’t take anything for granted, and appreciate every bite as a gift. It’s temporary, fleeting, and precious.
As you can see, this practice of beginner’s mind transforms the activity.

Why It Matters

When you practice beginner’s mind with an activity:
  • Better experiences: You aren’t clouded by prejudgments, preconceptions, fantasies about what it should be or assumptions about how you already know it will be. When you don’t have these, you can’t be disappointed or frustrated by the experience, because there’s no fantasy or preconception to compare it to.
  • Better relationships: If you are talking to someone else, instead of being frustrated by them because they aren’t meeting your ideal, you can see them with fresh eyes and notice that they’re just trying to be happy, that they have good intentions (even if they’re not your intentions), and they are struggling just like you are. This transforms your relationship with the person.
  • Less procrastination: If you’re procrastinating on a big work task, you could look at it with beginner’s mind and instead of worrying about how hard the task will be or how you might fail at it … you can be curious about what the task will be like. You can notice the details of doing the task, instead of trying to get away from them.
  • Less anxiety: If you have an upcoming event or meeting that you’re anxious about … instead of worrying about what might happen, you can open yourself up to being curious about what will happen, let go of your preconceived ideas about the outcome and instead embrace not knowing, embrace being present and finding gratitude in the moment for what you’re doing and who you’re meeting.
As you can see, the practice of beginner’s mind can transform any activity, get rid of a lot of our difficulties, allow us to be more flexible, open, curious, grateful, present.
I’m not saying all of this happens automagically. It takes practice, but it’s worth the practice.

How to Practice

Beginner’s mind is what we practice in meditation. Instead of sitting in meditation and thinking you know what your breath will be like, or the present moment in front of you will be like … you pay attention. See it with fresh eyes. Drop your preconceived ideas and just look clearly at what’s in front of you.
A daily meditation practice is extremely useful in developing this beginner’s mind. Here’s how to practice:
  1. Sit comfortably and upright in a quiet place.
  2. Pay attention to your body, then your breath, trying to see them clearly and freshly.
  3. When you notice yourself having preconceived ideas, wandering from the present moment, thinking you know how it will be … just notice that.
  4. See if you can drop the ideas and thoughts and fantasies and stories that are filling up your head. Empty yourself so you can see what’s actually in front of you. See what your breath is actually like, right now, instead of what you think it will be or what you’re thinking about.
Repeat the last few steps, over and over. See the thoughts and fantasies, empty yourself and see what’s actually there with fresh eyes.
You can practice this right now, with whatever is in front of you. With how your body feels, how your breath feels, whatever else is around you.
You can practice whenever you do any activity, from brushing your teeth to washing the dishes to walking and driving and working out and using your phone.
You can practice whenever you talk to another human being, dropping your ideas of how they should be and instead emptying your mind and seeing them as they are. Notice their good heart, their difficulties, and be grateful for them as they are. Love them for who they are and find compassion for their struggles.
This is the practice. Do it with a smile, and with love, with fresh eyes and gratitude for the only universe we’ll ever get — the actual one in front of us.

Friday, January 27, 2017

Tap Into The Incredible Power Of Your Subconscious Mind



The spiritual teacher Esther Hicks said:
“Seventeen seconds of focused, pleasurable visualization is stronger than 2000 hours of working to obtain a goal.”
This is a secret that proponents of creative visualization have known for years. Today science is beginning to show some evidence why…
Most people only set goals at the conscious level — which is only 1-5% of your potential resources.
But according to cutting-edge research from Dr. Bruce Lipton at Stanford University Medical Center, it is your subconscious mind that ultimately casts the deciding vote on how much success, abundance, happiness, health and freedom you experience in your life.
Dr Lipton explains that “most people don’t even acknowledge that their subconscious mind is at play, when the fact is it is a million times more powerful that the conscious mind, and that we operate 95 to 99 percent of our lives from subconscious programs.”
 
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Monday, January 23, 2017

Stress getting to you? Try some of these tips for stress relief.
By Mayo Clinic Staff
Is stress making you frustrated and irritable? Stress relievers can help restore calm and serenity to your chaotic life. You don't have to invest a lot of time or thought into stress relievers. If your stress is getting out of control and you need quick relief, try one of these tips.

Get active

Virtually any form of physical activity can act as a stress reliever. Even if you're not an athlete or you're out of shape, exercise can still be a good stress reliever.
Physical activity can pump up your feel-good endorphins and other natural neural chemicals that enhance your sense of well-being. Exercise can also refocus your mind on your body's movements, which can improve your mood and help the day's irritations fade away. Consider walking, jogging, gardening, housecleaning, biking, swimming, weightlifting or anything else that gets you active.

Eat a healthy diet

Eating a healthy diet is an important part of taking care of yourself. Aim to eat a variety of fruits and vegetables, and whole grains.

Avoid unhealthy habits

Some people may deal with stress by drinking too much caffeine or alcohol, smoking, eating too much, or using illicit substances. These can affect your health in unhealthy ways.

Meditate

During meditation, you focus your attention and quiet the stream of jumbled thoughts that may be crowding your mind and causing stress. Meditation can instill a sense of calm, peace and balance that can benefit both your emotional well-being and your overall health.
Guided meditation, guided imagery, visualization and other forms of meditation can be practiced anywhere at any time, whether you're out for a walk, riding the bus to work or waiting at the doctor's office.

Laugh more

A good sense of humor can't cure all ailments, but it can help you feel better, even if you have to force a fake laugh through your grumpiness. When you laugh, it not only lightens your mental load but also causes positive physical changes in your body. Laughter fires up and then cools down your stress response. So read some jokes, tell some jokes, watch a comedy or hang out with your funny friends.

Connect with others

When you're stressed and irritable, your instinct may be to wrap yourself in a cocoon. Instead, reach out to family and friends and make social connections.
Social contact is a good stress reliever because it can offer distraction, provide support and help you tolerate life's up and downs. So take a coffee break with a friend, email a relative or visit your place of worship.
Got more time? Considering volunteering for a charitable group and help yourself while helping others.

Friday, January 20, 2017

Meditation and Melatonin

Meditation and Melatonin. Since the beginning of time, our biological clocks have been dictated by Earth’s natural cycles of light and dark. In recent decades, in an effort to become a 24 hour per day, super-productive society, modern man has been experimenting with ever shorter nights and longer and longer days.

This unbalancing, combined with our newfound love of morning to night screen staring, is taking a heavy biological toll on us all. With excessive light being the number “1” enemy of melatonin, perhaps the most important casualty of this epidemic is that we are shutting down our body’s production of this critical chemical.

A key to good mood and restful sleep, melatonin is a hormone manufactured by the pineal gland, with levels in the blood peaking just before bedtime. A chemical “Superhero”, melatonin is known to prevent cancer, strengthen the immune system, slow down aging, and has been linked to helping prevent over 100 different diseases.

Luckily there is a very effective, all natural solution. Rutgers University researchers discovered that melatonin levels for meditation practitioners were boosted by an average of 98%, with many participants having increases by more than an incredible 300%! Incorporating meditation into your life can be your much needed biological re-balancing tool.

Thursday, January 19, 2017

 
The future of work is all about innovation and agility. We have to be prepared for ever-changing circumstances, and that means being open to learning new things.

Learning is no longer something we just do in schools. We can't rely on just the skillset we knew when we entered the workforce--that will guarantee career stagnation.

So I decided to sit down with Dr. Josh Davis, the Director of Research and Lead Professor for the NeuroLeadership Institute, an organization devoted to using science to advance leadership potential.

NLI has recently been exploring how to make ideas stick. Through their research, they created a model outlining four key conditions for effective learning: Attention, Generation, Emotion and Spacing (AGES).

Here's a quick overview of the AGES model:

Attention: When you learn, maintain a single focus having complete and undivided attention.

Generation: Listening isn't enough. Heighten the likelihood of memory retention by doing something with the information you're learning. Create a situation that will make this information meaningful.

Emotion: Strong emotions lead to strong memories. Look for ways to build an emotional connection to what you're learning.

Spacing: In order to grow memory, you need a break in between learning.

Laura: Why is the AGES model so important at this time?

Josh: With the world of work changing so quickly, we all need to learn how to learn. We need to be expert learners. These four principles, distilled from many years of research and hundreds of studies, are powerful ways to consciously recall what you want to consciously recall.

Laura: What is the most common barrier to learning that you see in people?

Josh: There is a pattern that we all learned in school, which is to study everything once. We learned by cramming for the test--a one-time burst of taking in information and trying to absorb as much as we can. But if the goal is to retain information, that model doesn't work.

What does work, is if we learn something, sleep on it, and then learn it again. Sleep is not a passive thing. It involves a lot of active brain processes, one of which is to reactivate those things that have been tagged as important during the day. That's how we grow our memory. But it doesn't happen in an instant, and it can't happen in an instant. You have to learn, sleep on it, come back to it, and reactivate it.

Laura: How can leaders and managers practically apply the AGES model with their employees?

Josh: Say you're trying to get someone up to speed quickly. You want them to learn quickly and retain, and you don't want to have to keep teaching them the same thing. One way to put them in a situation where they are likely to activate all four principles is to give them the responsibility of educating someone else about what they are doing and what they are learning.

We can't help but learn something if we have to teach it. In fact, there is research that people tend to learn better when they teach. If I am teaching someone about how we work at my company, it's going to grab my attention because I need to be able to focus on that person and do the work of communicating what I know.

I also have to generate connections to my own existing knowledge and think about what the other person is going to find relevant. There's a lot of connection building as you try to synthesize information and make it powerful, available, and fit the perspective of the person you're talking to.

This process tends to be emotional because you'll want to look good. Our social interactions matter so much to us. If you are in the position of teaching someone, you don't want to let them down, you want to look intelligent, and you want it to be engaging. There are a lot of inherent social drivers that make it an emotional moment.

And finally, if you're teaching someone else, that's usually not happening immediately after you learn it. Maybe it's a week later or a month later, and you are coming back to that information each time. There is space in between.

If you want someone to learn something, put them in a position where they have to own it, teach it, and synthesize it for another person. That's a great way to activate all of the principles and make it something that will last.

Laura: How has AGES helped you improve your learning?

Josh: If I am consciously aware that there is something I want to learn, I go ahead and shut off the other information streams. I don't check my email, I shut the door so I don't have other distractions, and I give myself that single focus of attention. I also make sure to come back to it and do some spacing and think about how I would teach it.

I also will come back and ask myself a few questions like, how does this help me do something that is important to me? If it's interesting, how can I make use of this? Who do I know would want to hear about this? In what ways is this helping me accomplish what I already want to accomplish? This is helping me generate a connection to an existing goal.

The emotional piece has been harder to put into practice for myself, but the teach-back part does help me connect with the emotionality. When working one on one with someone, I know that if I can help them have an insight about the value of some idea, then they are going to run with it so much more than if I were just giving them an answer. If someone has their own insight, that is a powerful form of generation. Another piece to it is that insights feel great, and that's an effective way to generate some emotion.

Laura: You mention that having an insight is the fastest path towards learning. How does one create the environment for insight to occur?

Josh: Before we discuss the optimal conditions for insights, we have to understand that we can only have one thing in conscious awareness at any one time. It's a powerful limitation. We can take in thousands of different information input unconsciously, but we can only have one thing in conscious awareness.

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An insight is a new signal or new thought you've never had before, a new way of putting information together. But here's the problem: this new information is not using a pathway that's most well-worn. It's not going to be where you have the strongest connection between neurons. Instead, what is going to be the strongest, and hold your conscious awareness, is something that is easy to think about or something that you have already thought about a lot. If you open your eyes and look around, those are the things that are easy to be the focus of conscious attention. And that's why having insights is tough.

What we want to do is make it possible to free up that competition for conscious awareness. There are four conditions that facilitate insight. First, you should have a quiet mind. It doesn't have to be quiet externally, but don't have a whole lot of competition for your conscious awareness.

Second, focus internally. When people are about to have an insight, they tend to go inward and there's some visual gating, where information is coming into their eyes, but it's not getting processed in the visual cortex. They are reflecting internally, so they have less competition from the external sensations.

Third, be in a slightly positive mood. The more positive the mood, the more likely we are to see new connections and come up with insight solutions. If we are in a negative mood we are more likely to solve things in a step by step, analytical way. Negative emotions like anxiety and sadness tend to narrow our focus, while positive emotions tend to expand our focus. This allows us to let in new ideas less critically.

The fourth condition is to not actively think about the problem. These four conditions should increase the likelihood of an insight.     Inc.

Tuesday, January 17, 2017

Study finds association between eating hot peppers and decreased mortality
Like spicy food? If so, you might live longer, say researchers at the Larner College of Medicine at the University of Vermont, who found that consumption of hot red chili peppers is associated with a 13 percent reduction in total mortality - primarily in deaths due to heart disease or stroke—in a large prospective study.
Older, fitter adults experience greater brain activity while learning
In what is believed to be the first study of its kind, older adults who scored high on cardiorespiratory fitness (CRF) tests performed better on memory tasks than those who had low CRF. Further, the more fit older adults were, the more active their brain was during learning. These findings appear in the journal Cortex. Difficulty remembering new information represents one of the most common complaints in aging and decreased memory performance is one of the hallmark impairments in Alzheimer's disease.  medicalexpress.com

Saturday, January 14, 2017

EVER BEEN JEALOUS? 
Do you wanna know how to get rid of jealousy once and for all?
Well, there’s many hard ways, but here’s the easy trick.
"When you allow yourself your own greatness, then you allow others to acknowledge theirs."
.once again:
"When you allow yourself your own greatness, then you allow others to acknowledge theirs."
**To allow your own greatness means,
-Don’t EVER speak negatively about yourself again! EVER!
-Successful people stick to a decision and don’t attack their own viewpoint unnecessarily.
-Be your own best friend and supporter, whatever others tell you!
-Never forget: when others are offended by you/or attack you, it is because they are insecure/uncertain about their own status.
-Even when the whole world seems to stand against you, you can still stand your own truth: this is the power of one that can move millions!
-To become great means that you MUST accept who you are: you ARE the miracle and creator.
-You are the creator of the reality you observe about you: if you speak badly about the creator which is you, then a bad creator will only create a bad reality.
So, in short:
You are justified or condemned by your own words! there are no external judges! The only judge is internal. So the first thing you must remove in order to live a free life is self-condemnation. The absence of jealousy will become the chronic symptom.   HypnoDoc

Thursday, January 12, 2017

The Mayo Clinic Says:

Types of relaxation techniques

Health professionals such as complementary and alternative medicine practitioners, doctors, and psychotherapists can teach various relaxation techniques. But if you prefer, you can also learn some relaxation techniques on your own.
In general, relaxation techniques involve refocusing your attention on something calming and increasing awareness of your body. It doesn't matter which relaxation technique you choose. What matters is that you try to practice relaxation regularly to reap its benefits.
There are several main types of relaxation techniques, including:
  • Autogenic relaxation. Autogenic means something that comes from within you. In this relaxation technique, you use both visual imagery and body awareness to reduce stress.
    You repeat words or suggestions in your mind to relax and reduce muscle tension. For example, you may imagine a peaceful setting and then focus on controlled, relaxing breathing, slowing your heart rate, or feeling different physical sensations, such as relaxing each arm or leg one by one.
  • Progressive muscle relaxation. In this relaxation technique, you focus on slowly tensing and then relaxing each muscle group.
    This helps you focus on the difference between muscle tension and relaxation. You become more aware of physical sensations.
    One method of progressive muscle relaxation is to start by tensing and relaxing the muscles in your toes and progressively working your way up to your neck and head. You can also start with your head and neck and work down to your toes. Tense your muscles for at least five seconds and then relax for 30 seconds, and repeat.
  • Visualization. In this relaxation technique, you form mental images to take a visual journey to a peaceful, calming place or situation.
    During visualization, try to use as many senses as you can, including smell, sight, sound and touch. If you imagine relaxing at the ocean, for instance, think about the smell of salt water, the sound of crashing waves and the warmth of the sun on your body. You may want to close your eyes, sit in a quiet spot and loosen any tight clothing.
Other relaxation techniques include:
  • Deep breathing
  • Hypnosis
  • Massage
  • Meditation
  • Tai chi
  • Yoga
  • Biofeedback
  • Music and art therapy

Relaxation techniques take practice

As you learn relaxation techniques, you'll become more aware of muscle tension and other physical sensations of stress. Once you know what the stress response feels like, you can make a conscious effort to practice a relaxation technique the moment you start to feel stress symptoms. This can prevent stress from spiraling out of control.
Remember that relaxation techniques are skills. As with any skill, your ability to relax improves with practice. Be patient with yourself. Don't let your effort to practice relaxation techniques become yet another stressor.
If one relaxation technique doesn't work for you, try another. If none of your efforts at stress reduction seems to work, talk to your doctor about other options.
Also, bear in mind that some people, especially those with serious psychological issues and a history of abuse, may experience feelings of emotional discomfort during some relaxation techniques. Although this is rare, if you experience emotional discomfort during relaxation techniques, stop what you're doing and consider talking to your doctor or mental health provider.

Wednesday, January 11, 2017

Those of us who live in the world of poverty research and rigorous measurement have watched many global indicators improve consistently for the past few decades. Between 1990 and 2013 (the last year for which there is good data), the number of people living in extreme poverty dropped by more than half, from 1.85 billion to 770 million. As the University of Oxford’s Max Roser recently put it, the top headline every day for the past two decades should have been: “Number of people in extreme poverty fell by 130,000 since yesterday.” At the same time, child mortality has dropped by nearly half, while literacy, vaccinations, and the number of people living in a democracy have all increased.   Greater Good

Tuesday, January 10, 2017

  Most people believe that they are the mind, and erroneously believe that controlling the mind means holding themselves back and denying their freedom. They feel that controlling their mind is not natural, and that it is some sort of repression. These beliefs are not correct.
  The proof that we are not the mind comes with training. Accept the idea in theory, and in time, as your control over your thoughts grows, you will know it as a fact. In reality, you, the real you, is the one mastering the mind. It is not the mind mastering itself.  REMEZ SASSON

Monday, January 9, 2017

The only true voyage of discovery… would be not to visit strange lands but to possess other eyes, to behold the universe through the eyes of another, of a hundred others, to behold the hundred universes that each of them beholds. ~Marcel Proust
Seeing Change, Missing ChangeThe human eye and brain are highly sensitive to sudden movement and change. An animal darts across the road. A student runs out of the classroom. We almost always notice these things. Gradual change is different. Our brains don’t like to work too hard and so, when we develop a concept of particular person, we tend to stick with it.
That’s understandable, but sometimes this tendency obscures important changes in that person. Sometimes, we miss the changes that are in front of our eyes because we’re caught in outdated concepts. We get so accustomed to seeing essentially the same person that we don’t detect what’s not the same.
In this New Year, perhaps we can behold the people in our lives – family, friends, colleagues and students – through new eyes. We can offer the gift of seeing them how they are in this moment, rather than how they’ve been.
How do we do this?It all begins with our attention. We offer our attention to them in a wholehearted way. We really look at them and pause long enough to see both their continuity, and what’s changed. We might try to see them as if we’d never seen them before. Old ideas and judgments may arise – we don’t have to fight with those – but we allow them to fade to background. Even a moment of stillness in ourselves can change how we see another. Our curiosity becomes an act of generosity. We see with new eyes, and in this way, allow the other to be just who they are. From all of us at Mindful Schools, we wish you a wonderful New Year.

Seeing Change, Missing ChangeThe human eye and brain are highly sensitive to sudden movement and change. An animal darts across the road. A student runs out of the classroom. We almost always notice these things. Gradual change is different. Our brains don’t like to work too hard and so, when we develop a concept of particular person, we tend to stick with it.
That’s understandable, but sometimes this tendency obscures important changes in that person. Sometimes, we miss the changes that are in front of our eyes because we’re caught in outdated concepts. We get so accustomed to seeing essentially the same person that we don’t detect what’s not the same.
In this New Year, perhaps we can behold the people in our lives – family, friends, colleagues and students – through new eyes. We can offer the gift of seeing them how they are in this moment, rather than how they’ve been.
How do we do this?It all begins with our attention. We offer our attention to them in a wholehearted way. We really look at them and pause long enough to see both their continuity, and what’s changed. We might try to see them as if we’d never seen them before. Old ideas and judgments may arise – we don’t have to fight with those – but we allow them to fade to background. Even a moment of stillness in ourselves can change how we see another. Our curiosity becomes an act of generosity. We see with new eyes, and in this way, allow the other to be just who they are. From all of us at Mindful Schools, we wish you a wonderful New Year.

While technology allows us to complete tasks faster, and do many tasks at once, it seems we actually have less hours in a day, and we’re almost never disconnected from our devices. Until we go to sleep that is.
And what’s the single most effective thing for getting things done? Here’s a hint: it’s not a smartphone. It’s getting good quality sleep. While we may feel like we’re just lying in bed slipping in and out of dreams, when we sleep, our body is in fact very much in multi-tasking mode.
During sleep, our body and brain are in repair mode: increasing resilience to stress and injury, reducing pain, regulating moods, diminishing anxiety, increasing memory and learning, and building immune competence.
Wow! Really? All of this happens while we sleep? Yes, but unfortunately many of us are blind to the benefits of a good night’s sleep. Forty-six per cent of Canadians have cut hours from their sleep to add hours to their day and the outcome is, in many ways, costly. Sleep deprivation costs billions in lost productivity per year.

Because sleep is so crucial for our body and brain to perform well, receiving good quality and quantity of sleep has to be a priority. Having fragmented sleep can negatively affect our concentration, attention, mood, and memory. 

If you are concerned about either the quality or quantity of sleep you’re getting, Dr. Lee suggests you book a sleep assessment. The Royal’s sleep lab is one of just a few in the country that specializes in sleep and psychiatry.
http://www.theroyal.ca/mental-health-centre/news-and-events/newsroom/6818/good-night-sleep-tight-understanding-the-importance-of-sleep-with-dr-lee/

Saturday, January 7, 2017

The benefits of meditation are well-acknowledged. Yet a scientific explanation of how it works has been conspicuously absent.
Brown University scientists may have helped to overcome this barrier as researchers propose a neurophysiological framework to explain the clinical benefits bestowed by meditation.
Scientists believe that mindfulness practitioners gain enhanced control over sensory cortical alpha rhythms that help regulate how the brain processes and filters sensations, including pain, and memories such as depressive thoughts.
The proposal, based on published experimental results and a validated computer simulation of neural networks, is based upon the intimate connection in mindfulness between mind and body. This approach is consistent with standardized mindfulness meditation training that begins with a highly localized focus on body and breath         PsychCentral.

This is also demonstrated by self-hypnotic induction methods which use progressive relaxation techniques to affect the same outcomes
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Friday, January 6, 2017

Stress even when not a killer (and it can be), can leave you tired, in pain, and less able to deal with life and work. You could listen to a song that reduces anxiety, but welcoming an ear  worm can become its own problem.
Instead, try focusing some energy on getting control over one habit you probably have in this modern world: cellphone addiction. OK, so you're not an addict? Then lock the phone up for a week -- even a day -- and notice the results. If even the thought leaves you queasy and wondering how you will manage, then you have an unhealthy relationship with it.
Phones are supposed to be tools that serve you. The problem is that they become task masters. Whether looking for emails from work colleagues or checking the latest social network post, they are driving what you have to do rather than enabling your schedule and needs.
The effect is like having a landline phone ring constantly at your desk. People constantly want something that will interrupt what you do. You try to accommodate, constantly juggling your schedule and deadlines, and then feel the stress of being out of control. Except, in this case, it's not just phone calls. Email, texts, IMs, and social media all bear down, clamoring for your attention and usually setting off notifications.
It's fine to say cut back on use, but how do you do that? First thing is to know that you needn't toss your phone or lock it in a safe whose combination you don't know. You reduce stress by reducing its instances. Even cutting back on part of it, and part of your phone use, is a start. Here are some suggestions.

Open your day without the phone

Some of the common advice you hear when looking into cutting back on phone use is to avoid immediately jumping in. You really don't need to see the emails, social media posts, and texts right away. Instead, try starting with a great time management tip of planning your day. (Reading and responding to messages will become one of your tasks.) Continue with breakfast, coffee, meditation, exercise, or anything else you would like to do. This way you gain control over your day.

Consider how urgent everything really is

Much of our response to urgent requests is perceived. We have to answer the message, start the task, check the social posts now. But we're generally the ones who assume the urgency. Sometimes we're right. Often we're wrong. Realize that if something is truly urgent and needs to be dealt with in the next hour or two, an email probably isn't someone's first choice to reach you. A text might be. Set aside several times during the day in which you'll open your phone and check on things.
This step may take some negotiation. Talk to superiors, people who report to you, family members, and close friends. Set up a way for them to reach you promptly when necessary, explaining that you're trying to bring your communications under control. Most people will understand. If you're working in a team situation, things can get more complicated. In that case, look at the book Sleeping with Your Smartphone: How to Break the 24/7 Habit and Change the Way You Work by Harvard Business School Professor Leslie Perlow. Despite the title, it's about the bigger effort to put work under control. If people at the Boston Consulting Group can manage to get their phone habit under control, gain more personal time, reduce travel, and work shorter weeks, you can as well.

Turn off most notifications

You can adjust push notices, alerts, and all the other beeps, blurps, and buzzes that come from your phone. Some of this may need to happen on a per-app basis. Some can be handled globally through the phone's overall settings. The less the phone calls to you, the less demanding it becomes. You can more easily put the device in a pocket and leave it there because it doesn't remind you of its presence as much. At the same time, you can probably set up special ring tones for people whose calls you need to take right away. Let the phone serve your needs.

Forget multitasking

Multitasking doesn't really work. People don't effectively do multiple things at the same time, even if they think they do. Every new task pulls away from the others. Even computers don't multi-task the way people assume happens. Everything get little slices of time, being swapped in and out and ridiculously fast rates. People don't work that way, so don't try it. When you're driving, just drive (unless you use the phone to listen to music or an audio book). When having a meal with someone, don't take the phone out. Let yourself enjoy the actual process of your life.

End your day without the phone

You'll see it soon enough in the morning. Cultivate the habit of shutting off the phone -- and tablet and computer -- at a certain point and give yourself time to decompress. Maybe you'll listen to music, read, watch television, draw, study a new subject, talk with your significant other, or a mix of all of the above. Once it's off, don't turn it back on again that night.
Over time you'll adjust to the new way of working. Stress will have shrunk a perceptible amount because you're not constantly using the phone as a method of self-agitation. You'll get more done and be happier about it all.            From www.inc.com.

Tuesday, January 3, 2017

We manifest what we focus on and place our attention upon. This is why I stated in my book Kissing Fish, "If we focus on avoiding sin, we may end up caught in the mires of it. Put another way, a 'campaign to stamp out sin' will always bring about less light, love, and wholeness in the world than a 'campaign to live in love." - Roger Wolsey
I,m just blown away by this.  There are a lot of organizations that currently market meditation and consciousness-altering technology while omitting to warn their customers about the context they should not be used in.  The audios should never be used while operating machinery or driving a motor vehicle.  Yet I have not seen them caution their customers as to potential hazards if used under certain circumstances.  This highly irresponsible and negligent.

Sunday, January 1, 2017

What is the Seed?  The Seed references the new sound matrix technology pioneered by IPMD (Institute of Progressive Meta-Development).  Here is their explanation -

   When we talk about the seed we are talking about the sum total of all the principles and forces required to bring in a valuable harvest or what some call a pearl of great price.  A harvest of wealth, power and wisdom.  In order to have a harvest we must first understand how to cultivate the seed and nurture it to provide that valuable harvest.  You can now obtain the highly effective tools to cultivate it. These tools are spawned through the use of the sound matrix Tracs. They are tools of the psyche like passion, perseverance, persistence and confidence which when applied to our mind can create amazing results beyond your wildest expectations. This is what the tracs program into you.  So the three p's which create the confidence can literally move mountains. The key is to applying them in a consistent and systematic way to get the harvest you desire. Its an inside job for the most part but we have now found that the science of sound can aide tremendously in accelerating the process.
   Sound happens to be the sense that is first to mature in the fetus.  And sound plays a very important role in human development.  But not until recently has it been researched in relation to evoking heightened states of awareness and trance states.  Researching this lead us to discovering that there were certain patterns and frequencies of sound, which if exposed to for a certain period of time would produce altered states of awareness and that theses states were the same states that meditators and monks would spend many years cultivating.  Discovering this first hand was truly amazing.  You to will be amazed with the results you will achieve.